Your Journey
You are tired of always feeling like you’re not enough, that nothing you do makes a difference.
You are so freakin’ over being exhausted, overwhelmed and always taking care of everyone else but you.
You want to be a good role model for your kids, not some crazy stressed out anger ball. You don’t want them thinking this is what a normal, healthy family looks like. And you sure as hell can’t let them think manipulation and abuse are ok…
When you are truly genuine, there will invariably be people who do not accept you. And in that case, you must be your own badass self, without apology.
I know what you’re thinking. “Sure, creating a “life I love” sounds great, and frankly, a bit like an infomercial, but how realistic is it? LIFE just happens. And I have responsibilities. The kid’s sick. Or refuses to go to school. Or even to eat. Or my boss is breathing down my neck and needs that project yesterday. Or my partner/spouse/loved one just ridiculed me in front of all my friends. What the fuck am I supposed to do now? I can’t be all ‘zen’ in the middle of this crazy mess.”
What if I told you there is a way to be true to yourself, without shirking your responsibilities? Listen close—this is important.
Nothing will change in your life until the pain of not showing up Real outweighs the fear and insecurity of doing something different.
It’s so easy to lose yourself, to give and give just a little bit here and there and not realize how those small concessions add up over time until suddenly, your life is one giant compromise. This time, something’s different. You are doing a disservice to the world if you don’t own and share your voice, your unique gifts. And none of it matters unless you believe in yourself.
What is the story you are telling yourself? What parts of it don’t feel true?
If I help even one person to discover their passions or purpose or escape from the weight of insecurity, silence, fear, and abuse, then I will have risen to my calling and purpose.
I went from being terrified of being seen and judged to performing my own spoken word poems as the commencement speaker at my MBA gradation and as the closing speaker at TEDx. I went from living my life in secret, isolated, afraid, lonely and ashamed of what my life had become to owning my truth unapologetically. It took a while to get here, but now that I know what this feels like, I will never go back to living other peoples’ agendas. I can help you learn to show up for life too. Whether you want to be on stage at TEDx or you simply want the confidence to decide what’s for dinner, I can help you.
I will help you relearn what it’s like to live life on your own terms. To grow, even when it’s uncomfortable. Hold you accountable with respect and compassion. Help you realize your vision of your best self and to live your best life.
