My Quest for Soul Authenticity
I help women (and men) overcome fear and self-doubt through clarity coaching to find your voice and your soul truth, (re)discover your passions, and empower you to show up authentically and enthusiastically for life.
You’re done with being controlled by guilt and fear, but you’re scared to death you’re going to piss people off or let them down by not doing what they want…
You are so tired of just “going through the motions” in life, not really living. Just kind of…there.
You want to be real, but you’ve been compromising yourself for so long you aren’t quite sure who you even are anymore.
You have no clue in hell where to go from here.
You’re in the Right place, friend, Because this is exactly what I do.
I’m Heather, aka recovering people pleaser, compulsive learner, proud imperfectionist, and most recently, Soul Truth guide. My passion is helping people overcome fear and self-doubt to show up and live the kick-ass life you are meant to.
I believe if I can’t show up real to my own life, then there really isn’t any point. I respect that this is hard, and I know unquestionably that this is essential. I spent more than a decade living other people’s versions of my life, compromising my values and ignoring my own needs.
I misplaced half my life changing myself to what others wanted me to be. Everything for everyone, and nothing for me!
The only thing getting in the way of my own happiness is myself.
It took a long time for me to get here, and I’ll never go back to the timid, insecure person I used to be. When I truly experienced what it feels like to show up wholeheartedly and unapologetically real, everything changed. For the first time in as long as I could remember, I didn’t turn to anyone else for opinions or validation. I stopped questioning my own opinions, and I sure as hell didn’t question my own worth. I decided I was done lying to myself, done making myself small so that others wouldn’t feel insecure.
I have learned to be curious and to listen without judgment. To always ask questions, even the hard ones. Especially the hard ones. I can help you get here, to a place where you can show up authentically and live a life you love. To create a life overflowing with energy and curiosity and purpose. To be connected—to yourself, your relationships, your tribe and your spirit, soul, nature, heart. To be soulful. Soul FULL.
Let go. It’s safe here. Listen to your soul. Can you hear it? It’s whispering today…it’s time…I want more. I deserve more. I’m ready.” Take a deep breath, and open yourself up to possibility, to abundance. To your soul truth. Open yourself up, and the universe will respond energetically.
The point of life is happiness. Connection. Love. Abundant love. If we’re not fueling our passions, nourishing our souls, connecting with each other and having fun every day, then what the hell are we here for?
“Official” 3rd person bio:
After realizing that a lifetime achievement award in people pleasing was not something to be proud of, Heather Higinbotham set out to learn how to be selfish without being (ugh)…selfish. In the process, she discovered that showing up and being real was not as scary as it seemed. In fact, it was pretty damn awesome. Heather now helps women gain the courage to (re)discover and own their awesomeness, and to learn to unapologetically take care of themselves before taking care of everyone else.
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